My Story: When Your Christian Marriage is Toxic
Years ago, trapped in a marriage marked by emotional and verbal abuse, I turned to every resource possible—from prayer and Christian marriage counseling to various programs aimed at saving marriages. Despite my efforts to stay and pray, my situation worsened, leading to spiritual stagnation, emotional depression, and even physical exhaustion and panic attacks. I had lost so much of myself. But God...
...in my darkest hour through a profound dream, God revealed that He did not approve of my marriage—a revolutionary moment that freed me from the jail that was my dysfunctional marriage, and guided me towards the true meaning of divorce under biblical grounds.
In the video below taken from my Authorized Divorce course, I tell the story of how this happened...
Now What?
What it's like to walk through the valley of the shadow of death via divorce...
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I thought understanding whether divorce was biblically right would be tough, but that was just the start. I always say to my students, divorce is only worth it if it becomes a first step toward freedom, a leap toward everything God has planned for you. That’s exactly what I embraced. I dove deeper into my relationship with God, not just studying the Bible, but learning to hear His voice clearly and consistently. This shift helped clarify His plans over my own mistaken choice in marriage partner—something I delve into in my Authorized Divorce course.
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God laid out the next steps I should take to live out my purpose. I even created a vision board inspired by our conversations, which I talk about in my Finding Yourself While Seeking Your Purpose course, where I also discuss the power of vision boards in discovering your calling.
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God is Faithful!
As I shared in the video above, embarking on a journey toward your God-given purpose and breaking free from an abusive marriage doesn't go unchallenged. The enemy doesn't just stand by; he tries to thwart your progress through well-meaning friends, family, and even church members who might encourage you to stay in the situation, alongside various life hardships aimed at making you give up.
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I've lived this reality. Just as I started making strides with my vision board, I faced a grueling four-year custody battle, was maligned and even unjustly jailed for standing up for what was right. But through it all, God proved His faithfulness as a promise keeper, miracle worker, and King of Glory! Now, I'm walking in my purpose Freedom Through Divorce LLC, guiding other women of faith to step out of toxic marriages and walk into their freedom and purpose with God.
How did I endure and overcome such trials? Psalms 23:4-6 was my anchor: "Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me." Deepening my relationship with God was crucial. His presence was my comfort and my strength in a battle that was already won in the spiritual realm. Check out this video from my Tips for Studying the Bible course where I discuss the vital role of God’s presence during these trying times.
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So, how can I help you?
Freedom Through Divorce LLC. creates faith-based personal development products for Christian women in toxic marriages, spiritually guiding them towards divorce, healing, and personal freedom. Our products serve you while you're in the following phases of your journey...
Phase 1 - Considering Divorce: These products are designed for Christian women seeking informed, compassionate Christian marriage advice and counseling. If you’re feeling uncertain about your marriage, these resources will help you explore biblical grounds for divorce without guilt or shame. We provide insights into what Scripture truly says about marriage and divorce, empowering you to make decisions with clarity and divine guidance.
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Phase 2 - Healing After Divorce: For women who are in the process of divorce or are moving past it, we offer resources to deepen your relationship with God and discover His post-divorce plan for your life. Our products focus on guided Bible studies and teachings that enhance your ability to hear God’s voice and uncover your true purpose, guiding you toward a life of freedom and fulfillment.
At Freedom Through Divorce LLC., we understand the struggles you face and offer tools that respect your faith and support your journey towards healing and personal growth.
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How to Get Started
Not sure if our resources align with what you need? No problem! We offer a few beginner-friendly and cost-effective ways to engage with our content and discover what we’re all about:
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1. YouTube: Dive into our channel for free access to a variety of videos, including insights on marriage and divorce, Bible studies, discussions on the family court system, and even prophetic messages. This is a great way to get a feel for our approach without any commitment.
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2. Etsy: Check out our Etsy store for affordable sample products priced at $20 or less—many are just $4.99! These samples give you a sneak peek of what our full products offer, allowing you to test the waters before making a larger investment.
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3. Freedom Through Divorce Shop: Ready for more? Our main shop features our full-scale products and options for personal coaching sessions with me. We're here to support you through your journey to freedom.
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Still have questions or need further guidance? Feel free to reach out via the contact form listed at the bottom of the page. We're here to help you find the path that’s right for you!